How big a person thinks determines the magnitude of his or her accomplishments.
Have you ever tried to assess yourself. Even if you have you might have assessed in such a way that you discover only your weakness and inabilities. Inferiority complex has been built in many people due to their attitude of knowing only their negative selves. Whenever a person is asked to evaluate himself he usually makes along list of his weaknesses.
But that reflect your true size. There is your other self that remains hidden. Here is method of assessing yourself properly.
1. Determine your chief assets. Ask your friends, your colleagues at the work place, the members of you family to contribute to the list you make. The assets could be education, home, financial stability, domestic life, behavior etc..
2. Next under each asset, write the name of three person you know who have been to successful to some extent but cannot boast of this the way you do. Once this exercise is done you would soon find yourself coming to the conclusion that you are better than the others in many respects. You are bigger than you thought you were. So change the style of your thinking so that it suits to your true size. Think as big as you are. Big thinkers have mastered the art of creating positive, forward looking, optimistic images both in their minds and in the minds of others. To think big we must use words, phrases and sentences which produce, big positive mental pictures.
Four ways to develop the big thinker’s vocabulary:
1. To describe how you feel you should always use big, positive, cheerful words and phrases. If someone asks you how you are feeling then you should always reply ‘wonderful’, ‘great’, or ‘fine’ and not that you are tired even if you are.
2. Describe others by using favorable, cheerful words. Use every possible opportunity to compliment others. Make it a rule to comment positively and in a big way about friends and associates.
3. Use positive words to outline plans. Words that are soothing to the ears, that lend hope. Promise victory while announcing plans and you would easily win support.
4. Encourage others by making use of positive language. Have a special good word for everyone. We all know that all of us crave for praise. So have that in plenty of others.
While managing your memory bank everyday see to it that you.
1. Deposit only positive thoughts in your mind. Failures are ignored by most successful people. They observe them but they don’t take it in to the mind. Negative unpleasant thoughts deposited in the mind affect the mind in a similar manner. Negative thoughts cause unnecessary strain on your mind. They give vent to frustration and feeling of inferiority.
2. Withdraw only positive thoughts from your memory bank. Never ever built mental monsters. Whenever you remember experiences that causes you pain remember only the good part of it and forget the bad. If you find yourself thinking about the bad side of it turn your mind off immediately.
But that reflect your true size. There is your other self that remains hidden. Here is method of assessing yourself properly.
1. Determine your chief assets. Ask your friends, your colleagues at the work place, the members of you family to contribute to the list you make. The assets could be education, home, financial stability, domestic life, behavior etc..
2. Next under each asset, write the name of three person you know who have been to successful to some extent but cannot boast of this the way you do. Once this exercise is done you would soon find yourself coming to the conclusion that you are better than the others in many respects. You are bigger than you thought you were. So change the style of your thinking so that it suits to your true size. Think as big as you are. Big thinkers have mastered the art of creating positive, forward looking, optimistic images both in their minds and in the minds of others. To think big we must use words, phrases and sentences which produce, big positive mental pictures.
Four ways to develop the big thinker’s vocabulary:
1. To describe how you feel you should always use big, positive, cheerful words and phrases. If someone asks you how you are feeling then you should always reply ‘wonderful’, ‘great’, or ‘fine’ and not that you are tired even if you are.
2. Describe others by using favorable, cheerful words. Use every possible opportunity to compliment others. Make it a rule to comment positively and in a big way about friends and associates.
3. Use positive words to outline plans. Words that are soothing to the ears, that lend hope. Promise victory while announcing plans and you would easily win support.
4. Encourage others by making use of positive language. Have a special good word for everyone. We all know that all of us crave for praise. So have that in plenty of others.
While managing your memory bank everyday see to it that you.
1. Deposit only positive thoughts in your mind. Failures are ignored by most successful people. They observe them but they don’t take it in to the mind. Negative unpleasant thoughts deposited in the mind affect the mind in a similar manner. Negative thoughts cause unnecessary strain on your mind. They give vent to frustration and feeling of inferiority.
2. Withdraw only positive thoughts from your memory bank. Never ever built mental monsters. Whenever you remember experiences that causes you pain remember only the good part of it and forget the bad. If you find yourself thinking about the bad side of it turn your mind off immediately.